You never need to worry about finding love.
If you're not sure whether someone loves you, then they probably don't love you enough.
If you have to ask yourself whether you love a person, you don't.
If the person you love makes you sad a lot, or makes you feel bad about yourself, then it isn't love.
If someone loves another person more than they love you, then wish them well. It isn't meant to be.
You can't make someone love you, and you don't own someone's love.
It's a lot like a fire. You have to take turns kindling it, all year round. If your fire goes out, you can re-start it together, but not on your own.
You might love someone who is very different from you, or very similar. Neither is better.
Don't love someone just because you think it will make them happy.
Love isn't about changing people, so spend your love on someone you don't want to change.
But you never need to worry about finding real love, because you'll absolutely know it when it finds you.
Katherine is an accidental stockbroker and co-founder of 'Not the style pages'. She often wondered about spotting true love, but then it found her and she hasn't worried since.
Beautiful, meaningful & very very true :)
ReplyDelete